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Judge Not, Lest Ye Be Judged

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Are the fundamentals of right and wrong a matter of time and place?

Joe Paterno was a revered college football coach whose career spanned decades. His leadership included winning games and deep concern for his student players. His legacy was destroyed by a single mistake: Not following up on a charge of child sexual abuse by a former assistant coach. Disgraced, Paterno was forced to resign. He died not long after.

Was that fair?

If you say no, then what would have been a just cause to push him from his pedestal and send him hurtling into the abyss while the rest of us clucked our disapproval at him as he fell? If he had committed the abuse himself or actively worked to cover it up? Wouldn’t that have been enough? Isn’t there some point at which the bad overwhelms the good?

Maybe there isn’t such a point?

How do we balance a man’s good works against his bad deeds? Where is the line where we go from saying “OK, this guy’s a great man but he has some peccadilloes,” to saying “I don’t care what he accomplished, he’s a monster?” If the person who discovers a cure for cancer turns out to have molested five children before, during and after he made his discoveries, how are we to judge him?

The same questions can be asked about societies. Where is the line where we go from saying “This was a great civilization that had some flaws” to “This was a civilization that was evil?”

In my May 2012 “Contrarian” column I wrote that if we want to stop child sexual abuse we have to understand the underlying motivation, and to understand that we have to look at the sexual use of children in its historical, sociological, and psychological contexts.

In this column I want to use child sexual abuse as a measuring stick of evil.

Stripped to its essence, this act of oppression is the exploitation of the weak by the strong. The stronger person gets what he wants without regard to the well being, dignity, or wishes of the weaker person. The aftereffects for the victim can be devastating and lifelong.

The above also describes slavery.

Many of our country’s founding fathers were slave holders.

What if they had been pederasts instead? Would that have been worse than being slaveholders? Would they be regarded any differently than they are today?

Now at this point, some of you might find the comparison offensive and say: “Yes, today we all know slavery was wrong but back then it was accepted so we can’t use today’s standards to judge people back then.”

My response: Are the fundamentals of right and wrong a matter of time and place? If some primitive tribe practices cannibalism is that OK because, in their context, it’s accepted? Or do we say: “No, it’s not acceptable. Their context is irrelevant because they are primitive.” In that case, does the advanced nature of ancient Greek civilization give their many pederasts a free pass because everyone was doing it?

Unfortunately it’s been a long, hard slog in humanity’s rise from the cave and the jungle. Fortunately, we are more civilized today than we were in the past. Things that were acceptable even 50 years ago in this country are now looked upon with horror.

But before we point an accusing finger at our ancestors of centuries back, perhaps we should look at ourselves in the mirror and have a little humility and understanding, for things we accept as normal today will be looked upon by our descendants as revolting and barbaric.

Which brings me to the subject of pigs.

The website Wired (October 8, 2009) describes an experiment done at Cambridge University in the advancing field of pig cognition. With just five hours of exposure to a mirror the average farm pig can learn to interpret reflected images to find hidden food. The ability to use a mirror is considered by scientists an indication of complex cognitive processing and higher levels of awareness.

Science Daily (July 27, 2010) reported on research from Newcastle University on pig emotions. Pigs were taught to associate one sound with a treat and a different sound with something unpleasant. Half the pigs were placed in an enriched environment (more space, pig toys), and the other half in a smaller and duller environment. When an ambiguous sound was played, the pigs from the enriched environment approached, expecting a treat. The pigs in the poorer environment stayed away. The fortunate pigs displayed an optimism their less-fortunate experiment-mates did not; like humans, their prior experience affected their future expectations.

These and other recent experiments indicate the intelligence and inner emotional life of a creature our society has condemned to live and to die on giant farms where they are treated as so many widgets. Pregnant sows are kept in gestation cages only slightly larger than their own bodies. They cannot move or turn around. Temple Grandin of Colorado State University's Department of Animal Science has described it as "Asking a sow to live in an airline seat." Their deaths are not easy, either. From an article by Joby Warrick in the Washington Post (April 10, 2001): “Hogs…are dunked in tanks of hot water after they are stunned to soften the hides for skinning. As a result, a botched slaughter condemns some hogs to being scalded and drowned. Secret videotape from an Iowa pork plant (provided by the Humane Farming Association) shows hogs squealing and kicking as they are being lowered into the water.”

The great Yiddish writer, Isaac Bashevis Singer, (Nobel Prize in Literature in 1978) wrote: “In relation to them (animals), all people are Nazis; for the animals, it is an eternal Treblinka.”

Some of you may be thinking, “Come on! They’re only pigs. They’re just animals. They don’t really experience pain and terror.” If so, I urge you to read what people have written about other oppressed groups when voices were raised to protest their treatment.

I’m not saying the Holocaust is the same as the modern industrial farming of pigs. And I’m not saying a slave holder is the same as a child molester.

I am saying that when we point a disapproving finger at times past and places far away we should be careful not to look in the mirror for we may not like what we see.

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I and our readers would like to hear your thoughts on this column, including from those of you whose ire has been roused by what I said here. Please leave a comment below if you’re reading this online. If you’re reading this in Change magazine’s print version, you are welcome to visit the magazine’s web site and leave a comment. Thanks.

Harry

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+3 #7 Lee Slonimsky 2012-07-17 20:59
Harry Steven Lazerus has written another brilliant column, and once again proven himself to be a prophet among us. Fortunately Isaac Bashevis Singer was incorrect when he wrote that all people were Nazis in regard to animals, for 3% of Americans are vegetarians. The support for the tuna boycott decades ago because of concern over dolphins shows that, if it’s the right animal, there’s a consensus to reject killing it. You won’t find “chimpanzee” or “gorilla” on any US restaurant menu. The challenge for those concerned with this issue is to extend the same concern to other animals like pigs, who may not have the 5th grade math capacities of gorillas, but do have intelligence and “an inner emotional life,” as Mr. Lazerus aptly puts it. His column is important in how it expands the ring of our concern from dolphins and primates to other beings like pigs -- and hopefully someday to all beings -- also worthy of compassion and respect.
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+2 #6 Karen H. 2012-07-12 23:49
You titled your piece "Judge Not Lest Ye Be Judged". That, sir, is a misquote of the Biblical verse you appear to be referencing. The correct verse is "For in the way you judge, you will be judged; and by your standard of measure, it will be measured to you" Matthew 7:2. This is not, nor has it ever been, a warning against judgment. It is a warning against hypocrisy. Surely you don't really think all Joe Pa did was not follow up on the accusation of child sexual abuse by a member of his staff. Your misquote about judging is usually used as a verbal weapon to halt any further discussion of the rightness or wrongness of a person's behavior. I say It does not matter what evil or good may or may not have transpired since man first walked upright--child sexual abuse is WRONG. A society without judgment is not one in which I would choose to live.
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+6 #5 Heather 2012-07-10 04:01
Today both slavery and child molestation are against the law, in this country prison is a result of such actions. Along with these crimes we have people in prison for drug abuse, burglaries, homicides etc... When these people are released they are judged by us as they try to re-enter society, how "bad" was their crime? How long were they incarcerated, does longer really mean "worse" (think 3 strikes laws)? As one reader commented, a more nuanced viewpoint is necessary whenever human beings are concerned. Which is in part why when convicted felons are sentenced the individual's "good works" may be considered, and are again considered at parole hearings. Judging between good and evil is an ongoing event that most of us do without consciously considering it. When presented with a question to consider the rationale of our judgments it becomes quite sticky. Rarely are there absolutes in life with humankind, if you want absolutes, stick to math.
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+5 #4 Perspicacity 2012-07-09 17:25
Maybe our judgments of people should be more nuanced and less all or none. We can still evaluate people's actions without calling them great or evil. Since very people will actually fall into the category of all great or all evil, they seem like generally useless titles. I think evaluating the goodness of a person is a different task than evaluating their actions, because their intent and values matter too. But I currently do not have a proposal on how to do this.
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+2 #3 Carla 2012-07-07 02:37
Every one of us has a dark side. It is the nature of life and, most often, our greatest teacher. I have never understood why we have a collective "allergy" to this truth—which makes us break out into a rash of judgement. While I understand society's need for rules, reward and punishment, and labeling, I believe we could all benefit from encouraging one another to learn from mistakes and bad habits, heal the root causes of our destructive choices, and to make different choices. Like you Harry, I can't figure it all out. But I do know that without evil, we would never know good. The darker a room, the brighter a candle flame shines. We all need one another.
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+3 #2 Mike M. 2012-07-06 16:14
In your article, you ask: "What if they had been pederasts instead? Would that have been worse than being slaveholders?", and the answer is "yes". Not all slaveholders were evil, although many were. Some slaveholders cared for, provided for, and even educated their slaves. Had all of the benign slaveholders simply released their slaves, those slaves would have ended up in the hands of the evil slaveholders, and life would have been much worse for all of them. But pederasty is evil, pure and simple.
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+3 #1 Mike 2012-07-06 13:55
I was going to ponder this, then post, but this may provoke more thought.

I really cannot reconcile this microcosmic division of good and evil.

I have enjoyed the Penn State football program over the years. I am not prone to hero worship. In the Paterno situation, is it really black and white? Can't he be a great football legend and a flawed person? Does one really totally cancel the other? Does the whole of one's life have to be defined by one act?

I fully understand the gravity of the situation and of the failings of Paterno's actions following the report of Sandusky's activities..

Wrong is wrong. But does one wrong totally invalidate all of the good? If so, one speeding ticket and you are done. Where is the "invalidation line"?

Thorny questions to ponder, and to discuss, and to ultimately decide for oneself.
I can live with the dichotomy, but it seems to put me at odds with popular opinion.
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